Day 3: What Drives Your Life? – Discovering Your True Motivation
“I observed that the basic motive for success is the driving force of envy and jealousy!” – Ecclesiastes 4:4 (LB) “The man without a purpose is like a ship without a rudder – a waif, a nothing, a no man.” – Thomas Carlyle Welcome to Day 3 of our Purpose-Driven Life journey! We’ve established that life starts with God and that you’re not an accident. Today, Rick Warren asks a penetrating question that will expose the engine running your life: What drives you? The Universal Truth About Human Motivation Here’s a reality check: Everyone’s life is driven by something. Whether you realize it or not, there’s a driving force guiding, controlling, and directing your decisions, relationships, and daily choices. Right now, you might be driven by a looming deadline, a painful memory, a haunting fear, or an unconscious belief. But Warren identifies five of the most common drivers that control people’s lives – and warns why each one leads to a dead end. The Five Most Common Life Drivers 1. Driven by Guilt The Prison of the Past Guilt-driven people spend their entire lives running from regrets and hiding their shame. They’re manipulated by memories, allowing their past to control their future. They often unconsciously sabotage their own success as a form of self-punishment. When Cain sinned, his guilt disconnected him from God’s presence, and God said, “You will be a restless wanderer on the earth.” That describes most people today – wandering through life without purpose. But here’s the hope: We are products of our past, but we don’t have to be prisoners of it. God turned a murderer named Moses into a leader and a coward named Gideon into a courageous hero. He specializes in fresh starts! 2. Driven by Resentment and Anger The Poison You Drink Some people never get over their hurts. Instead of releasing pain through forgiveness, they rehearse it repeatedly in their minds. Some “clam up” and internalize their anger, while others “blow up” and explode onto others. Here’s the brutal truth: Resentment always hurts you more than the person you resent. While your offender has probably forgotten the offense and moved on, you continue to stew in pain, perpetuating the past. Your past is past! Nothing will change it. You’re only hurting yourself with bitterness. For your own sake, learn from it, then let it go. 3. Driven by Fear The Self-Imposed Prison Fear-driven people miss great opportunities because they’re afraid to venture out. They play it safe, avoid risks, and try to maintain the status quo. Whether from trauma, unrealistic expectations, or genetic predisposition, fear becomes a prison. The antidote: You must move against fear with the weapons of faith and love. “Well-formed love banishes fear. Since fear is crippling, a fearful life—fear of death, fear of judgment—is one not yet fully formed in love.” 4. Driven by Materialism The Myth of More Their desire to acquire becomes their whole life goal. This drive for “more” is based on three misconceptions: Reality check: Real security can only be found in what can never be taken from you – your relationship with God. 5. Driven by the Need for Approval The Crowd-Following Trap They allow expectations of parents, spouses, children, teachers, or friends to control their lives. Many adults are still trying to earn approval from unpleasable parents. Others are driven by peer pressure, constantly worried about what others think. Warren’s wisdom: “I don’t know all the keys to success, but one key to failure is to try to please everyone.” Being controlled by others’ opinions is a guaranteed way to miss God’s purposes for your life. The Dead End Destination All these drivers lead to the same place: unused potential, unnecessary stress, and an unfulfilled life. Without purpose, life becomes: As Isaiah complained: “I have labored to no purpose; I have spent my strength in vain and for nothing.” The Five Great Benefits of Purpose-Driven Living Warren reveals why discovering God’s purposes transforms everything: 1. Purpose Gives Meaning to Your Life When life has meaning, you can bear almost anything. Without it, nothing is bearable. Without God, life has no purpose. Without purpose, life has no meaning. Without meaning, life has no significance or hope. Hope is as essential as air and water. Dr. Bernie Siegel found he could predict which cancer patients would survive by asking, “Do you want to live to be 100?” Those with deep life purpose said yes and were most likely to survive. 2. Purpose Simplifies Your Life It defines what you do and what you don’t do. Your purpose becomes the standard for evaluating which activities are essential. You simply ask: “Does this activity help me fulfill one of God’s purposes for my life?” Without clear purpose, you make choices based on circumstances, pressures, and momentary moods. You try to do too much, causing stress, fatigue, and conflict. 3. Purpose Focuses Your Life It concentrates your effort and energy on what’s important. You become effective by being selective. The power of focus: Diffused light has little impact, but focused light can start fires. When focused further as a laser, it can cut through steel. There is nothing quite as potent as a focused life, one lived on purpose. 4. Purpose Motivates Your Life Purpose always produces passion. Nothing energizes like clear purpose. Passion dissipates when you lack purpose – even getting out of bed becomes a major chore. George Bernard Shaw wrote: “This is the true joy of life: the being used up for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one.” 5. Purpose Prepares You for Eternity Many people spend their lives trying to create lasting earthly legacies. But all achievements are eventually surpassed, records broken, reputations fade, and tributes forgotten. The eternal perspective: You weren’t put on earth to be remembered. You were put here to prepare for eternity. The Two Ultimate Questions One day you’ll stand before God for a final exam. From Scripture, Warren identifies the two crucial questions God
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