How do you forgive someone who hurt you but never apologised? Sometimes they even act like they are the victim. Let’s face it, forgiveness is not easy. Yes, it’s freeing, but it’s definitely not easy. I’ve always found revenge in movies oddly satisfying, yet God calls us to a life of forgiveness. Across the Bible, forgiveness appears in ~100-110 bible verses, depending on the translation. It’s a higher calling, one that sets us apart and leads us to true peace and freedom.
If forgiveness feels like a mountain you can’t climb, remember that God provides the strength we need to take that first step. Let these seven Bible verses and passages guide and encourage you on the path of letting go and extending grace.
1. Matthew 6:14-15 – Forgiveness Unlocks Freedom
"For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins."
This verse reminds us of the power of forgiveness—not just for others but for ourselves. God’s forgiveness is abundant, but it comes with a condition: we must also forgive. Forgiveness is a choice to release resentment and embrace freedom.
Reflection: Is there someone you need to forgive? Pray for the courage to let go and experience the freedom God offers.
2. Ephesians 4:31-32 – Replace Bitterness with Kindness
"Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."
Bitterness is a heavy burden to carry. This verse challenges us to trade it for kindness and compassion. When we think about how much God has forgiven us, it becomes a little easier to extend that same grace to others—even when they don’t deserve it.
Reflection: What steps can you take today to show kindness to someone who hurt you?
3. Colossians 3:13 – Forgive as the Lord Forgave You
"Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."
God’s forgiveness is the ultimate example for us to follow. It’s not about denying the hurt but about releasing it. When we forgive, we reflect God’s grace in our lives.
Reflection: Meditate on how God has forgiven you, and let that be the fuel for forgiving others.
4. Psalm 55:22 – Cast Your Burdens on the Lord
"Cast your cares on the Lord and He will sustain you; He will never let the righteous be shaken."
Sometimes forgiveness feels impossible because the pain is too deep. But this verse reminds us that we don’t have to carry it alone. We can give our hurts to God, and He will help us heal.
Reflection: Write down the things that are causing you pain and pray, asking God to take those burdens from you.
5. Romans 12:19 – Let God Handle Justice
"Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the Lord."
Revenge might feel satisfying in the moment, but it’s not our job to deliver justice. This verse reminds us to trust God to handle it in His perfect way and timing.
Reflection: Are you holding onto thoughts of revenge? Release them to God and trust Him to bring justice.
6. Philippians 3:13-14 – Forget What Is Behind
"Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus."
Dwelling on the past can keep us stuck. Paul’s words encourage us to focus on what lies ahead instead. Forgiveness isn’t about forgetting—it’s about choosing not to let the past hold you back.
Reflection: What steps can you take today to move forward from past hurts?
7. Luke 23:34 – Jesus’ Ultimate Example of Forgiveness
"Jesus said, ‘Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.’"
Even in His final moments, Jesus forgave those who crucified Him. This powerful example reminds us that forgiveness is not about the worthiness of the other person but about following Christ’s example.
Reflection: How does Jesus’ forgiveness challenge you to forgive in your own life?
Practical Steps for Letting Go and Forgiving
- Acknowledge the Hurt: Healing starts with admitting how you feel. Be honest with yourself and God about your pain.
- Pray for Strength: Forgiveness isn’t easy, but God’s grace can make it possible. Ask Him for help.
- Choose to Let Go: Forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling. Make the choice to release bitterness, even if it’s hard.
- Set Boundaries: Forgiving doesn’t mean letting someone continue to hurt you. Learn to protect your peace.
- Reflect on God’s Forgiveness: The more you understand how much God has forgiven you, the easier it becomes to forgive others.
Conclusion
Forgiveness isn’t easy, especially when the pain runs deep or the apology never comes. But it’s a gift you give yourself—a gift of freedom, peace, and healing. As you meditate on these Bible verses and take steps toward forgiveness, remember that God is with you every step of the way. He understands your pain, and He’s ready to help you let go.
Start this year by releasing what’s holding you back. Let forgiveness be the key that unlocks a brighter, lighter future. Wait!, before you go check out 7 Bible lessons that will transform your life.
